Please Scream Quietly

A Story of Kink

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Please Scream Quietly

A Story of Kink

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In Please Scream Quietly, professor and self-identified kinkster Julie Fennell offers an intimate, nuanced, and engaging portrayal of the lives and loves of a BDSM community. In this first-of-its-kind collective autobiography of the frequently misunderstood and often maligned BDSM subculture, Fennell’s insider perspective shows that while most people are a little bit kinky, the BDSM community teaches its members to emphasize and cherish their kinky differences. Drawing from interviews, survey data, and years of observations, Fennell showcases kinksters’ lives and loves in a captivating, vibrant, and authoritative story. She addresses questions such as: How do kinksters define their identities? How do BDSM community members construct socially meaningful identities for themselves? Are BDSM identities always experienced as sexual? How are kinky relationships and consensual nonmonogamy/polyamory experienced in the community? Fennell provides an unprecedented exploration of kinksters’ community group norms and rules, analyzing the demographics along with the behavioral and attitudinal norms in—and out—of BDSM dungeons. Fennell analyzes the multiple ways kinksters construct positive and negative social status, illustrating how the social world of kinksters is frequently quite different from outsiders’ perceptions of it.

Table of Contents

Acknowledgments
Introduction: “Your Fantasy Is My Reality”
1 Becoming “Kinky”
2 “Does This Look Sexual to You?”: Why Kinksters Do BDSM
3 “Why Would We Still Follow Their Bullshit Rules?” Practicing Polyamory in the Scene
4 The Love Language of Kink: BDSM Roles and Relationships
5 Learning the Ropes: Values and Rules in the Scene
6 Welcome to the Dungeon: Performing Kink
7 The Deviant Elite: Reputation and Social Status in the Scene
Conclusion: What Is It That We Do?
Methodological Appendix
References
Index

Product details

Published 27 Jun 2022
Format Ebook (PDF)
Edition 1st
Extent 296
ISBN 9798881879099
Imprint Rowman & Littlefield Publishers
Illustrations 17 b/w photos; 7 tables
Series Diverse Sexualities, Genders, and Relationships
Publisher Bloomsbury Publishing

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