Just Kidding: Using Humor Effectively: Louis R. Franzini: Rowman & Littlefield Publishers

Just Kidding

Using Humor Effectively

Just Kidding

Using Humor Effectively

Description

For professional comedians, their primary goal is to make people laugh. For everyone else humor can be the envelope in which another message is sent and therefore will be received with pleasure. This book is designed precisely to help you make your own efforts at humor more effective in achieving the primary goals of your interaction: to solidify friendships, preserve a marriage, obtain employment, close sales, conduct therapy, defuse conflict, or simply enjoy life more.

Humor is a quality nearly all of us claim in ourselves and one which we seek and highly value in others. We love a sense of humor in our dates and mates, our children, and everyone with whom we have social contacts. When humor making is successful, we are drawn closer to other people and share a bonding emotional experience. We enjoy life more and our troubles seem to lessen instantly.

There are many proven ways to enhance our senses of humor in ourselves and even our children. Humor making can be taught and developed to a very high level, thus increasing our chances for social and even economic success.

Just Kidding: Using Humor Effectivelyis for adults who enjoy humor and who would like to be funnier. It includes definitions of funniness and examples of both helpful and harmful humor. It describes the relevant comedic and psychological rules for making humor effective. The book points out the danger signs for offensive humor and how to make the decision to “say it or stuff it.” Examples of successful and unsuccessful humor from comedians to politicians are used throughout to illustrate the many varieties of humor and how context and audience make a difference. Finally, a variety of fun exercises are offered to build the skills for effective humor making.

Acknowledgments
Introduction

1: The Power of Humor and Laughter
2: The Nuts and Bolts of Humor
3: Political Correctness and Humor
4: Not All Humor Is All Good
5: Public Bombings
6: Effective Humor Pitfalls
7: Spontaneous Humor versus Spontaneous Sex
8: How You Can Be Even Funnier
9: Strategies to Avoid Humor that Fails
10: Getting the Last Laugh

Humor Development Exercises to Raise Your HQ
Suggested Readings
Index

Product details

Published	Jul 07 2015
Format	Paperback
Edition	1st
Extent	208
ISBN	9781442213371
Imprint	Rowman & Littlefield Publishers
Dimensions	224 x 148 mm
Publisher	Bloomsbury Publishing

Franzini (psychology, emeritus, San Diego State Univ.; Kids Who Laugh: How To Develop Your Child’s Sense of Humor) presents an analysis of the niche field of humor research and explores how to make humor more effective. While the primary goal of professional comedians is to make people laugh, for the rest of us, humor can make our interactions more effective. Franzini explores the relevance of political correctness, situations when humor is inappropriate, effective humor pitfalls, spontaneous humor, and strategies that will help avoid failed humor. Examples of successful and unsuccessful humor from comedians and politicians help illustrate its many varieties and demonstrate how context and audience determine whether or not something is funny. Franzini also provides exercises that help build the skills for effective humor. VERDICT Investigating the relatively specialized area of the psychology of humor, this book will appeal to lay readers. Professional psychologists may find it a nice supplement to Rod A. Martin’s The Psychology of Humor: An Integrative Approach, Robert R. Provine’s Laughter: A Scientific Investigation, and the peer-reviewed Humor: International Journal of Humor Research.

Library Journal
“If you want to get more laughter in your life (and who doesn’t?) then this book is for you. Not only does the author provide a book that is filled with sound suggestions for improving your humor skills, but he also makes sure they are memorable by peppering them with enjoyable, lighthearted, and laughable examples. Just Kidding is a must read for anyone wanting to expand their sense of humor . . . and I’m not kidding.”

Allen Klein, author of The Healing Power of Humor, and, Learning to Laugh When You Feel Like Crying
“Good news: Research shows that humor can be trained. Louis Franzinis`s latest book Just Kidding: Using Humor Effectively is entertaining to read and based on research; it will help amateurs who want to incorporate more humor into their daily lives more successfully.”

Willibald Ruch, Ph.D., president of the International Society for Humor Studies, professor, Department of Psychology, University of Zurich
“We can start at any time in life to improve our sense of humor. Lou Franzini is a funny person, a funny man, a funny father, a funny friend and a funny psychologist, which you will understand from reading his advice about using humor effectively. Here he blends just the right amount of analysis for the left side of our brains with humor for the right side of our brains, cautions for the grown-up side of us, silliness for the kid in us, and encouragement to risk being more ‘in humor’ for our souls.”

Steve Wilson, psychologist, rigologist, president of World Laughter Tour, director of National Humor Month (April)
Whether you're in the boardroom or the bedroom, Just Kidding is a must read. Lou Franzini combines his expertise and his wit to show us that humor can truly be life-changing. Entertaining yet practical, Just Kidding is a book that you will not be able to put down (really--I tried), and is destined to become a classic in our field.

Karyn Buxman, RN, MSN, CSP, CPAE, past president Association for Applied and Therapeutic Humor; publisher/author, What's So Funny About...? series; and publisher, Journal of Nursing Jocularity
Franzini describes how to increase and improve the use of humor in everyday life. This discussion is not for professionals although there are plenty of references to other books on how to be funny and research on laughter and comedy. The style is charming and conversational but the goal is serious. Humor can make work and play more pleasant and improve any social relationship. This book is a positive contribution to the literature on the value and application of humor.

The Humorous Times